i have lost most of my family, and dearest freinds. and these losses make me very much aware of how important freinds can be. and why its right to place value on them. and show them appreciate them. even freinds deserve a kind action, and word. letting them know you appeciate them is ery important to me. some of the great people ive known have passed with out me telling them how much i appreciated them. so i try to make up for that. one of the things i did was to always buy them a gift on MY birthday. and explain that their love and or freindship was a wonderful gift to me. and other things as well. i do not think its bad to tell a current spouse how much you loved your deceased spouse. as long as you have done a good job of insuring that your new spouse knows how much you care for them as well. an inequality of expressed affection, and reassurance always causes problems, whether its a dad, or mom , or spouse or sibling that is being talked about all the time. there should be just as many posts about how wonderful their current love is, as well as a missed dead loved one.
Oh my god I wish that was me. Maybe someday there'll be a chance right?
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